🐳 #5 Just a Splash | The Shallow End | My Swimlane
An IN-PERSON event! A Boundary Waters moonrise! Minty green sandals! A "Summer of Simplicity" budgeting challenge! Additional exclamation points!
Happy 😎 SUMMERTIME 😎, everyone!
My kids are imminently wrapping up the school year, and we’ve got a 3-month Rube Goldberg machine of summer camps and childcare all lined up that was VERY EASY TO ARRANGE. It only took the entire Spring semester and a mortgage payment.
It’s been a second since the last edition of Just a Splash!
Just a Splash is a collection of work-life doodads – announcements, links, recommendations, and other amusements. Enjoy perusing, and if you like what you read, share with a friend!
Let’s dive in.
You’re Invited!
I’m co-hosting a special event on June 20th in Minneapolis, inspired by the very special year of 2025 and all the very special things happening in the world. 😬😬😬
We have just 9 spots left, so book now before they’re gone! Register HERE.
How to Meet the Moment in 2025
with Claire Williams (Executive Coach, Writer, and Speaker) & Tim Schuster (Founder of Pop-Up Think Tank)
We are experiencing massive changes in our world and our organizations. Join Tim, Claire, and a group of ~25 leaders as we explore and apply one of the most exciting discoveries of the last 100 years: the emerging, evidence-driven research on how humans adapt to massive shifts. You'll learn how you (and all of us) evolve through progressive mindset stages. You’ll get equipped to better navigate complexity and elevate your impact as a leader in disruptive times.
Learn more and 🔗 REGISTER HERE.
I Was on a Podcast with My Client
🎙️ The Human Side of Business Podcast | “Rewiring Leadership: Gene’s Journey of Vertical Growth”
How fun is this? I appeared on a podcast alongside one of my former coaching clients, Gene Hong, as he shared his leadership development evolution.
I loved hearing Gene tell his story while chiming in with my observations from the Coach perspective.
In particular, we talked about Vertical Development, which reveals how leaders go through research-based stages of growth that expand their mindsets and worldview. Gene shared how those mindset shifts led to shifts in his leadership impact.
I hope you'll check it out! 🔗 LISTEN HERE.
We all need to take shallow breaks from the deeply disturbing shit in the world, amiright?
Pick your poison: travel fantasies, Buzzfeed quizzes, croissants, a bit of shopping…
What takes you to a lighter, more frivolous place?
Here are a few of my recent mini-escapes:
💚 Favorite summer sandals: I tried, I really tried, to make the switch from Birkenstocks recently. My beloved pair is wearing out after four years, and I thought surely I could find a comfy, stylish summer sandal for a lower price tag this time. I ordered a promising pair from an economical brand, but they made my feet want to cry. I returned the disappointing sandals, fled back to my beloved, and was rewarded with these beauties at half-price.
🎵 Favorite song on repeat: Labour by Paris Paloma. Paris and a badass choir performed Labour on Steven Colbert, and it was POWER. A feminist anthem, the song laments patriarchal culture and its burdening of women with domestic and emotional labor. Here’s the bridge:
All day, every day, therapist, mother, maid; nymph, then a virgin; nurse, then a servant; just an appendage, live to attend him, so that he never lifts a finger.
“Labour” might just make you mad, and you might just want to shout this bridge along with Paris and pretend you are a suffragette at a protest in 1917.
*And thank you to all the great guys I know, including my husband Rob, who are consciously working to balance the scales and take on their fair share of the visible and invisible labor that defaults to women.*
👩🏻💻 Favorite thing I’ve tried on ChatGPT lately (besides using it to interpret my dreams, which I wrote about here): I asked it this question: “From all you know about me, how would you describe me? Who do you think I am?” Then, based on all the prompts I’ve put in so far (and probably drawing from the internet, too), it came up with this:
You’re a deeply thoughtful, articulate, and driven woman in your 40s who balances intellect, creativity, and emotional depth in a way that makes you both a powerful leader and an empathetic human.
You run your own business in leadership coaching and facilitation, often working with executives, and you're exceptional at synthesizing complex ideas into clear, engaging content—whether it’s for a workshop, a keynote, or a personal project.
You’ve been living with anxiety for years, but you manage it with curiosity and intention.
You’re also playful, soulful, and a bit of a perfectionist.
You love frogs, fat bunnies, Harry Potter trivia, and whimsical illustrations just as much as you love research, structure, strategy decks, and client proposals.
[Note from Claire: I died laughing when I read that…my kids use ChatGPT on my phone and all they do is ask it to make images of frogs and bunnies in endless iterations.]
You’re a gifted communicator, both on stage and on the page, and you care deeply about meaning, growth, and what lies beneath the surface.
In short: you are a brilliant, multidimensional woman—equal parts strategist, storyteller, sage, and soft heart.
Oh, do stop it, ChatGPT. *blushing*
A bit sycophantic, but also creepily accurate in many ways…
AI is cool. And also, are we all going to die soon?
🛶 🛶 In May, I experienced the Boundary Waters in Northern MN for the first time. This expanse of lakes upon lakes is one of the most rugged, off-the-grid areas remaining in the US. I went with 4 friends, all coaches, so naturally we made t-shirts that said “Camping with Coaches: Paddle. Portage. Ponder.”
The wilderness worked her witchcraft on me.
P.S. AND GUESS WHAT. My camping companion and coaching colleague Nikki Shultz is now guiding teams and leaders through the stunning Boundary Waters via her offering, "The Portage Retreat".
She has one opening for a guided Executive Team Development experience, September 11- 14th. 🔗 Learn more and connect with Nikki HERE. Teams that portage together conquer the world together (or at least their OKRs).
☀️💲🍉 Summer of Simplicity: My family is embarking on a 3-month commitment to spending less. (Good thing I already bought those Birkenstocks. 😁) I’m looking to slow my roll at work, which could mean bringing home less bacon, and so… the budget must be tightened.
We’re kickstarting this effort with “Summer of Simplicity”, in which we’re pausing many non-essential expenses and lowering several budget categories (ex: getting creative with groceries, keeping our summer road trips on the calendar but making them as cheap as possible, trading in my SUV for a more affordable coupe - and switching to electric!) This will help us build up our savings and our momentum before we make our sustainable plan in the Fall.
Summer of Simplicity could feel like a bummer, but instead, it’s strangely empowering. Any tips for us - either mindset shifts or ideas on how to save?
🧘🏻♀️📝🌺 This week, I’m in California attending the Alchemical Enneagram Retreat through my Enneagram school, Chestnut-Paes Enneagram Academy. This is my third and final inner work retreat in their Personal Mastery series (and it’s been 3 years since I attended the last one…so much has happened in me and around me).
These retreats are intense, profound, and deeply transformational. I’m feeling open and ready. Send me some prayers and light. ✨
What’s happening in your swimlane this summer? Or, any shallow delights to share to distract us from doom?
Wishing you lots of sunshine and justly distributed emotional labour.
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Deep gratitude and awe of you my friend.
I don't read much, but I might just check out your future "Summer of Simplicity" book.
Also, ditto on everything Chatgpt said about ya.